My own face seat

I dragged the weight training bench into my room and tried it out on Ron.

Modifications:

1. Wide belt between seat and reclining bench - used to restrain neck.
2. Reclining bench laid flat.
3. Wrists tied with pantyhose to bench.
4. Ankles tied with pantyhose to bench.

I decided to put my soiled pantyhose from Saturday on Ron's head before I sat on him. It made his face look all squashed up and this really looked cute.

Face seat

http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/6844

I downloaded this book and was massively aroused. Wow. 

Relaxing

Masturation whilst facesitting is a good tactic; it opened my crotch and my ass absorbed Ron. This was a much deeper sit and I found myself thinking about my brother's weight training bench in the spare room. He's in Australia at college and won't miss it.

Breaking him in

I never realised I'd have to break my partner in. Ron wants to contribute ideas and do some things his own way. This is not really what I have in mind so I'm going to have to break him in.

I read that I could masturbate myself whilst sitting on him and plan to try this. Apparently it will make me soaking wet and the cum will seep through my pantyhose onto Ron's face. The scent of my juices should make Ron behave himself a little better.

Posture 2

This variation on posture 1 felt great. I did posture 1 for a while and then tried this. Ron is learning to struggle less I think. To be honest I kind of forgot he was even there...

Closer....

I've found that I can clip Ron's dog collar almost directly onto my ankle collar. This means that his face is brushing my ankle. I'm not sure what I can do with this new knowledge but it turns me on, so I guess something will happen...

Collar and lead

My collar and lead finally came. Well, in fact it is a large dog collar and a small cat collar, along with a chain and a clip fastener. I wanted a choke chain but couldn't buy one on-line. 

The cat collar fastens around my ankle and the dog collar fits Ron just nicely. I am going to practice walking around the room later.

Soft bdsm

I've been reading about how I can use old pairs of pantyhose to tie Ron up. If I tie his hands behind his back, and his ankles together, he can move less.

Restraint

I realised that the man may not necessarily want to hold still. I must admit that this hadn't previously occurred to me at all. Ron struggled a lot and clearly wanted to stop quite early on.

I'm going to research soft restraints.

Posture 1

I tried this posture with Ron. It was extremely comfortable for me and totally restrained him whilst I sat.

After about twenty seconds he struggled quite badly so I lifted a little. This kept on for around half an hour. I watched season 4 of Lost on DVD whilst I sat. It was very relaxing, sexy and fun.

I'm not sure what Ron got out of it but I thought it was great.

Asian grace

I feel that we Asian women possess a grace that is lacking in many parts of the world. We have no wish to embrace masculine habits or dress.

The Asian obsession with pantyhose

Western men

Many Malaysian women are attracted to Western men; particularly intelligent, big, kind athletic men. Their huge bodies, pale skin and large noses make them seem both cute and strong. One day I'd like to find myself a white husband I think.

Western women

I've been looking at Western femdom sites and there's a lot of beating going on. The women look bigger than the men and show a lot of skin and often have tattoos. It looks quite an ordeal for the man.

Pantyhose or stockings?

My friend said that stockings are great for access but pantyhose are best for denial. I love the way I can look at my oussy through my pantyhose and I love the way my ass looks in the mirror. The nylon smooths over all my flaws and makes my legs look so smooth.

Namio Party

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The most exciting discovery - a Namio Party! Wildly popular throughout Asia, these naughty parties seem to be an incredibly discreet secret. I'm going to get myself invited to one ASAP.

Smothering

Asian smothering is all about female comfort. The only concession for man is breathing. It is assumed that a man can hold his breath fro about 30 seconds before needing to breathe.

Cheongsam

Most of the face-sitting practices were originally designed to be practiced by somebody who was wearing cheongsam and stockings. Later, it was assumed that you'd be wearing pantyhose for greater pressure and reduced accessibility.

Face-sitting

This is the mainstay of femdom and I've found dozens of different postures that offer alternatives methods of sitting. The variety lies with the amount of weight being imposed and how wifde the groin is opened. Most of the postures require you to wear pantyhose and heels, but no restrictive clothing.

Femdom practices

Common femdom practices in Asia:

1. Face-sitting
2. Smothering
3. Cunnilingus
4. Analingus
5. Strap-on
6. Trampling
7. Collar & lead
8. Toilet training
9. Human furniture
10. Group sessions

What is femdom?

I have made the following observations:

1. Men please women's needs., not their own
2. Women are feminine and seldom undress fully
3. Women wear stockings, pantyhose and heels
4. Men are usually kneeling or lying down


I will jot down new insights as I discover them...

Discreetly does it

Malaysian femdom is not public or vulgar; it is subtle and kept firmly behind closed doors.

Pantyhose

I think that Malaysian women are obsessed with hosiery. Given how sweaty they make you feel, it is surprising.  I guess its all about snobbery and aircon. Popo told me that only peasant girls have bare legs.

My Mum told me never to wear panties with pantyhose; otherwise it can cause infection.

I personally own quite a collection of nylons; I order most of them on-line.

How to express my needs?

I have a thirst for femdom and I have a practice partner. The hard part is how to instigate things...

An obedient partner

In order to practice femdom I have secured myself a compliant partner. For privacy's sake I will keep him anonymous but will refer to him as "Ron".

Ron is a gullible, typical ex-pat young student who thinks that he's going to get laid.

Matriarchy

Most Chinese families I know are ruled by a Popo-figure; a great grandmother who decides how things are done in the family. Her authority is imposed by the female family members. I don't know of any family that is not like this.

Asian = feminine

I have never seen a picture of Asian sex in which the woman is dressed coarsely or behaving in a masculine manner. This is very inspiring!

Asian Femdom

I think that Asian femdom is a little different from Western femdom. I might be wrong but it seems more low-key.

Sex Education

There isn't any sex education as such in Malaysia. You don't really know what is going on. Much of what you learn is from friends, TV, movies and the internet.

I really like this picture

 

When I first saw it I got a shiver. It is so rude and yet captures the haughty attitude of Malaysian Chinese women.

The Urine Story

I heard this story:

This man has a fantasy. He wants his wife to piss in his mouth. But he's shy. He's worried that his wife won't understand why he wants this or what it means. He's afraid that it will end their relationship or that she'll tell everyone about his request and bring shame upon him.

So he stews in frustration.

Eventually, the man goes to see a prostitute and she urinates on him. However, this doesn't turn him on. Quite the opposite: it revolts him. How come? Because he wanted his wife to do it.