Controlled penetration #1

This is something that must be practiced carefully and the rules cannot be deviated from.

Ron is blindfolded, gagged and chained by his neck to my ankle as closely as I can manage. His hands are tied behind his back.


I wear pantyhose and sharp heels.

I lie back and Ron kneeling enters me. I hold onto his nipples and direct his penetration.

This is a very hard task for him because of balance. He cannot get any rhythm. I keep my leg low down in order to bend his neck down as far as I can. Ron is bent almost double as he enters me.

Straddle him

The best way to straddle a man is to tie him first to your slave bench/chair.

I tie Ron's hands beneath the bench, his ankles to the legs of the bench and then put a thick leather belt around his neck and underneath the bench.

I like Ron's head to be on its side so usually ask a friend to sit on the side of Ron's head when I ride him. A man is not allowed to watch your face when you take him. Your pleasure is your own concern, not his.

Dry-hump

I made Ron hump my leg whilst Kate watched.

She was amazed when Ron came and we made him hump her leg straight after. This was more amusing because he was dry and struggled to produce any more fluids.

Kate was patient and cajoled him for almost an hour whilst Ron sweated and strained out another droplet of cum.

Our nylons must have really abraded the end of his penis.

Malaysian femdom

Incentive

Ron was lazy exercising today, so I sat crossed legged on his back wearing my stockings and nothing else.

He could feel my crotch on his bare back.

I made him press-up until he collapsed in agony.

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Face-sitting

Ron looks up

As Ron exercises he must look up to me.

His world view is my heels, then higher up, my black nylons. He cannot crane his neck high enough to see my face.

Ron works out

I make Ron workout now. He was getting lazy.

I sit on bed in my hosiery and crossed-legs whilst be does whatever I tell him on the floor below.

I make him sit-up, press-up until he nearly pass out.

My latest studio pic

Foot-play

Dildo-gag

I love the dildo-gag. I can really slam up and down on Ron.

I cut a hole in my tights just to use with the dildo-gag. I call them my Holy Tights.

Ride him

When riding your man, you have 4 options:

1. dildo
2. dildo-gag
3. straddling him
4. controlled penetration

On top

Never let a man ride you.

This gives entirely the wrong impression.

I love the bag on the head

Femdom 101

Make sure he wears the collar and lead at all times.

Whenever you want him to move around the house, fasten it to the cat collar and tie the cat collar around your ankle.

Remember to let him remain with you when you urinate.
Crouching at your ankle whilst you go will help to train him.

Clipping the dog lead directly to the cat collar - without the chain - is good if your want his face right up to your ankle.

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"I love the almost gentle nature of the art. I also like the muted colors (when there is color) and the very subtle backgrounds.

I look at the women in this art and I feel like I'm looking at a more elegant version of myself. Probably the large asses and the short hair are what draw me in. I also appreciate that the woman is queening or face-sitting on her subject, but that it's done in a very idle and relaxed manner while sometimes talking on her phone. It's as if she is nonplussed by the obvious service and submission of her male. And when she does appear to focus on her male, it is in a calm and deliberate way. "

Faceseat

Riding his face

I like to bounce up and down on Ron's face whilst wearing only my pantyhose. I pretend I'm a jockey and canter for a good 20 minutes. Ron's nose pokes agreeably up my ass sometimes and I just love that.

Femdom 101

Start slowly.

Don't be too ambitious.

Training your slave to lie still whilst you sit on his face could take weeks.
You need to be patient.
Tie his wrists to his thighs using old stockings (tightly).
Sit deeply and fully but allow that he will need to breathe periodically.
Initially, sit for about 20 mins but then increase it to 2-3 hours at a go.
Watching TV with friends is the best way to do this.

Your friends could be invaluable if they share your interest in femdom.

Floor

Hard sitting

I used to lower myself onto Ron's face. Now I sit from standing; heavy and without control. I fall onto his face with my ass.

Femdom 101

You are not forcing him to do anything.

This is not brutal or violent.

He must beg you to treat him this way.

Understand what 'beg' means: grovelling, desperate, pleading, humiliating.

Such behavior ensures his total obedience.

If he ever refuses you, withdraw your attentions until he demonstrates the necessary sincerity.

Foot-play

Femdom 101

Make him kneel at all times.

He must never speak to you unless you want him to.

If he resists, put an old stocking in his mouth and tie another one around his face to keep his mouth closed.

Smothering

Femdom 101

Keep what you do within your relationship; behind closed doors.

Sure, you can involve close friends, but keep the circle small and intimate.

Femdom 101

You are not a sex worker.

This is not something you do in public or for money.

You are not a prostitute or a mistress.

Do not advertise what you do.

Doggie

Like a dog

Femdom 101

1. Pantyhose or stockings
2. Large dog collar and lead
3. Cat collar
4. High heels

This is all you need to get started.

The pantyhose can be black or tan; ideally sheer-to-waist. Stockings are better when black. No fancy patterns or gimmicks. Low denier: 7 -15 ideally. Nothing thicker.

The dog collar is for his neck.

The  cat collar is for your ankle.


You should always wear hosiery when your slave/husband/boyfriend/subject is around. He should never be permitted to wear clothes when you are alone together.

Lead